Monday, June 16, 2008

hallo!

anyway. just a thought. u know. when i got into a relationship with julie. i swear i didnt know wad the hell i got myself into. and then its like through months of growing, reading, thinking, and loads of mistakes. i really thank God for a much clearer perspective. like i know where i wanna go and wad i wanna achieve. i know that each relationship has a purpose and a direction. for u and your partner to grow individually as well as together.

and then i look around. think back during jc life when every other idiot like me got attached like so frickin easily. its almost like u could throw a stone into the crowd and u d find someone hus probably attached. then out of jc life. i read blogs, i find people yearning to get attached. den i find some others hu keep getting attached. and others hu give me things like "i dont know, i cant predict the future" when i ask them if its gonna last. (baby, its not u!) and u keep thinking, and i guess most relationships dont work out cus of various reasons.

people are just in it for the moment. live for the passionate moments.
people dont have purpose and directions in their relationships.
people get attached for the sake of getting attached.
people get attached cus they are needy and they just need someone of the opposite sex.

wadever la. alot of reasons.

ah wells. how many people enter a relationship with the purpose to edify. i really wonder. where the guy is really the leader and the girl is really the supporter. where issues are ironed out. where they both have a clear vision.

and now we also know why married couples get divorced so often. i m keen not to make those mistakes. or die trying. haha.

|cowpoo| 9:37 PM|

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